'Kaki'

I found out why I am constantly busy busy busy. Well, I have too many 'kaki' (activity partners). I have :

1. tennis or table tennis 'kaki'
2. photography 'kaki'
3. club 'kaki' (also the outing 'kaki')
4. karaoke 'kaki'
5. lepak 'kaki' (coffee gang)
6. lunch 'kaki'

Still, I am planning to look for yoga & fitness 'kaki', as well as good traveling 'kaki' (this is really difficult to find).

My requirement for 'kaki' in general is quite simple, they have to enjoy that activity, got time to kill and not expecting too much from me. Some new 'kaki' joined the group but very soon, these people started to be too keen and asked me a lot of personal questions, or asked me to help them with this and that... just endless expectations on me.

Well, I must say I can't handle this, in fact I hate it, especially if I don't know them very well apart from going out together on the activity events. In that case, I will distance myself from these people 'cos I just hate to entertain expectations. Don't ask me why, I was borned this way I guess. To the people I like, I do not mind to do whatever for them. However for those who I sense that there are a lot of expectations or too keen, I will freak out and just run away.

Yeah, I am mean.